Maybe you came into a part of your life to where you see the value of extracting positive people. Maybe people are draining you each and every day of their negative mindset, complaining, and inability to see things and a brighter level. When trying to run your life in a positive manner, you may be Inundated with negative people in different areas of your life. To some, this may seem as though it is all their fault. After all, they should be in control of their own actions. This makes total sense! However, it is not entirely true that it is their fault that they appear in your life in a negative manner (more…)
Hey guys… Welcome to my blog. If you're reading this right now, you're probably interested in knowing How to Improve Self Confidence in any area of your life. Improving your self confidence can seem very daunting and sometimes impossible depending on how bad we're struggling with a certain area.
In this post, I will be giving you a couple of tips that you can start using today to increase your confidence in any area of your life so that you can live a more happier and fulfilling life…
How to Improve Self Confidence | What Are People Afraid of?
WOW… So Self Confidence!
I am just about as real as it gets and what I come to learn is that self confidence is a way of living. Unfortunately, some of us haven't been taught that way of living.
But it's okay, I will be sharing with you a little later some simple techniques you can use in getting yourself on a better level.
Fear is what's stopping a lot of people from achieving their goals and not living the dreams that they want. If you know you want to earn more money in your business or in your career, you definitely want to stop fear as soon as possible.
See, a lot of people mask the word “Confidence” with fear…
Basically, if you're struggling with confidence in a certain area, it's probably because you fear a certain thing. I found that the lack of confidence and the inability to do certain things is because of fear
…However, the fear could steam from certain things!
So, what are people really afraid of?
They're afraid of either failing or having success…
I know the having success part is a little hard to believe, but it's a little more common than you may think.
Having success in your business can really bring in some fear mentalities… Such as, “Will I be able to keep my money”, “People will want more and more money from me”, and “I will have to pay more taxes”.
People go through all sorts of fears and some of them may be legit things to think about because they may very well happen, but they are not legit things to fear.
So, if you're interested in How to Improve Self Confidence and start releasing fear, check out this video:
VIDEO: Increase Your Life Results| How to Improve Self Confidence
How to Improve Your Self Confidence | Ideal Solutions to Kick Start Your Confidence
If you've been following me, you know that a lot of the things I talk about is the Subconscious Mind and our ability to change from within. And you'll hear me talk about this often because it just works and it's the answer that a lot of people have been seeking.
It's up to you to put this info to work and start enjoying your journey to increased wealth!
The first thing I would suggest is that you just be real and true to yourself.
Take a look at everything you may be fearing right now…
For example… Maybe you're a guy who was once afraid to take off your shirt in the boys locker room because of how you looked.
You thought that people would make fun of you… You knew there were some mean cold-hearted boys in your class and you felt as though you had to hide everyday to change your shirt.
One of the techniques you can use right now is just…
Do Not Care What Other People Think!
This works and it has for me when I lacked confidence in shooting videos and adding them online in front of family and friends. And it worked for me when speaking to others about my sexuality.
After gaining the “I don't care attitude” about certain areas of my life that I struggled with and didn't know How to Improve Self Confidence… I increased my feelings and results in those areas. My videos came out 30x better and I spoke with confidence when speaking about my relationship to people… no matter who they were.
The second thing you can do to start improving your self confidence is start practicing whatever it is you need to improve on. For instance, If I get put in front of people to speak and I don't know what it is that I am supposed to say or I am not familiar with the topic of discussion, my confidence goes way down because of the fear of messing up or saying something wrong… I would even fear not knowing something in front of a ton of people when I am supposed to be the expert…
You got to admit that it isn't fun being put on the spotlight!
So, for example… when being told I have to give a speech last minute, I would deal with improving my confidence in three ways.
1. Self Talk: I would constantly say great things in my head like “things will turn out well” or “I got this… It's easy”.
2. Practice: Actually take action and practice what it is I have to speak about. Use whatever time I have to get in a couple of practices.
3. Imagine: See the end result that I want… See people coming to me saying that it was a great speech and applauding me.
These three things combined will help improve self confidence when you implement it. Many people constantly struggle in their life and they may even pondered over the questions of How to Improve Self Confidence…
Truth is, there are many ways and you can start off by what I just gave you. I would also suggest that if you're looking to live a more prosperous life, check out the book, Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. That would be an excellent book to start off with!
I hope you've enjoyed and you're ready to get out there and increase your self confidence today! It starts with a decision!
…And if you're looking to work with a group of people who are constantly working on bettering their life in all areas, check out this link on my $10K Per Month Challenge.
You can also just contact me at http://www.facebook.com/robin.williams.104
I look forward in chatting with you!
Founder of Team Free the People
Wanted to write a quick message for you and that's on Letting Go of Your Results to Receive Magic in Your Business…
So, what exactly do I mean by that…
Letting Go of Your Results – The Issue with Most Legit Network Marketers!
If you've been working your business day in and day out… It's probably time to stop.
Most network marketers who are legit in working their business and taking action are always working.
They can't get a break and the computer is their best friend.
When it comes to Letting Go of Your Results, they're just not in that realm of thinking.
Now, don't get me wrong!
There are network marketers out there that Absolutely Love to work all day, but they're not focused on their results either. They may know that the results are coming that day for the efforts that they rendered
….but they ain't worried and caught up on them!
Not letting go of what your results will looking like and if you'll get any results is like putting a stopper in the drain… not much is going to flow through.
Letting Go of Your Results – What to do To Let it All Go!
Obviously, it's simple… right? 😉
Maybe it's not to some.
You have to come to the idea that whatever it is that you need or want is on its way and Letting Go of Your Results is key! It's just waiting for you to leave it alone so that the things that needs to be worked… can be worked.
Consider yourself interrupting your dreams and desires…
Interrupting your income goals
your team goals…
Interrupting all of your GOOD attraction every time you think about your results in a worrying state.
If it's not in a positive “I know it's already here and THANK YOU” flow…
You're going to be glued to that situation for a while.
This powerful technique will run Effortlessly…
It doesn't need you micromanaging it… Trying to figure things out and wondering if things will come back to you!
All you're doing is tapping it on its shoulder and interrupting your inner being from doing what it knows to do best!
You do the action you know that needs to be done, you keep the faith, and then you let it go…
Check out this video on one of my experiences when it comes to letting go.
Hopefully, you've gotten a lot of value from this post and Letting go of Your Results is a little bit easier. Maybe you suffered from the “Work all day and check for results” syndrome…
Maybe you don't!
Either way, there are people out there that needs this info and would benefit. They seriously just need to walk away for a bit…
But not many people know this.
That's why its up to you to share this to spread the awareness!
Feel free to check out some more of my free tips here on my blog!
Robin M. Williams
Internet Lifestyle Coach